11 years ago, 3 weeks after Aaditya, my son, was born, we got a call from the NICU.. Aadi was born premature at 28 weeks, but due to a condition I developed during pregnancy called pre- eclampsia, he was born extremely small, weighing just 600 grams (1 lb). During those days, every time the cellphone rang, we would skip a heartbeat. This particular call was about our son having had a grade 4 brain hemorrhage. We were in India then, and the law allows one to unplug life suppor